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Also, that's why in multi-player games a player should say "I've got nothing left to play, does anyone else want to play anything?" before letting their EC lose as a result of battle resolution (i.e. dying by the numbers).
Ok I get how it works now (sorry Gabe) So the "why" part to my question would be that if the defender is losing by the numbers then he has one last chance to win the battle before battle resolution. If he chose not to play CM then he gives up the soul; he had his chance to win the battle but didn't take it. But if his character is losing by the numbers or if he's winning by the numbers and the attacker plays AotL or some other SA to get rid of the sole blocker then the attacker, because he couldn't do anything about the removal (or he couldn't or wouldn't negate if it was some other means of removal besides AotL) then he has one last chance to respond and win the battle by using CM. Correct?