I have edited this thread so the discussion can still continue while taking out the more controversial wording and tone while attempting to maintain the poster's main thought.
I have not locked it because...
1) I believe the community can discuss & share their points of view peacefully.
2) We are all human and passionately believe in our ideals...sometimes that is not easily conveyed in text.
3) We are all human and struggle with the flesh, I try to air on the side of grace in these instances.
4) Some good can still come from this thread.
Finally, I would like to leave you with these words as this thread moves forward: "A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another." -- Jesus (from John 13:34-35)