looks like I've got the same problem trying to connect to you. on RC, I can see that you're in RTS and so am I, but my RTS hasn't picked you up. I'm assuming you've got the same type of thing going on.
Question - can you see my messages in the lobby?
EDIT: I've gotta go play my ROOT game now. I would suggest both of you trying a different browser (I know I have issues w/ Firefox, so I need to use IE). After I'm done with my game, if y'all are still on I can try and help some more.