Both sides have been heard adequately, so I am locking this thread.
If you want to add more to the thread, then you can PM me.
If anyone starts a similar thread, then I will move it to quarantine.
I'm on the fence about keeping it public, but for now I will keep it public because both sides are willing to keep it public.
If I get a request to make it private, then I will do so.
In the meantime, be in prayer for the situation.