Author Topic: life or death plz pray (Read 12103 times)

Psomaster · « **on:** June 08, 2009, 10:32:57 PM »

my freind kayla is planning on ending it friday if her boyfreind doesnt talk to her. theres more to it then that of course but shes been pushed by ALOT of things going on lately. plz i need prayer and any help you can give me. im on msn at willben2@hotmail.com xfire at psomaster1 yahoo at pso_master_437@yahoo.com and gmail at psomaster437@gmail.com. plz any prayer or advice will help.

Timothy DS · « **Reply #1 on:** June 08, 2009, 10:40:11 PM »

i assume that means her life. and that is bad do what u can to talk to her about it, and of course I will pray.

Psomaster · « **Reply #2 on:** June 08, 2009, 11:01:29 PM »

she is not on drugs unless the pill counts and yes i mean life.

Psomaster · « **Reply #3 on:** June 08, 2009, 11:02:38 PM »

and by the pill i mean birth control and its messing with her emotional levels which isnt helping.

SerpentSlayer · « **Reply #4 on:** June 09, 2009, 02:53:06 AM »

I think you need to just let this kayla thing go man... it's not healthy for you to be this involved in something in another country. take a lesson from star wars *bad dude* Do you wanna buy some death sticks? *obi* no, you wanna go home and rethink your life.

*bad dude* I wanna go home and rethink my life. There are so many things that are wrong with this situation with you and her. Please I'm begging you to do what's right for you and your spirit; stop contacting her.

Psomaster · « **Reply #5 on:** June 09, 2009, 04:20:48 AM »

i cant let such a strong freindship go like this. i have to try and help her the best i can. i know if i dont do everything in my power to try and help her i will beat myself up over this.

Colin Michael · « **Reply #6 on:** June 09, 2009, 05:25:51 AM »

She's going to kill herself because her boyfriend won't talk to her?

That will show him.

Rrulez · « **Reply #7 on:** June 09, 2009, 10:07:52 AM »

Quote from: Colin Michael on June 09, 2009, 05:25:51 AM

She's going to kill herself because her boyfriend won't talk to her?

That will show him.

Congrats, sir. You just wyned a prayer request thread.

The Ottoman · « **Reply #8 on:** June 09, 2009, 11:12:39 AM »

This sounds serious. I am praying.

Alex_Olijar · « **Reply #9 on:** June 09, 2009, 12:07:43 PM »

Quote from: SoulSaver on June 09, 2009, 02:53:06 AM

I think you need to just let this kayla thing go man... it's not healthy for you to be this involved in something in another country. take a lesson from star wars *bad dude* Do you wanna buy some death sticks? *obi* no, you wanna go home and rethink your life. *bad dude* I wanna go home and rethink my life. There are so many things that are wrong with this situation with you and her. Please I'm begging you to do what's right for you and your spirit; stop contacting her.

I agree. I've been in a similar sort of situation in the last year or so, and I must say, when I stopped getting involved, things got better. I believe this is because I stopped filling her needs with superficial things like attention and instead I wouldn't acknowledge her unless it was a positive attitue, etc. By not paying attentino to her when she did crap, I discouraged her crap, because she just want attention.

New Raven BR · « **Reply #10 on:** June 09, 2009, 12:22:50 PM »

i will pray for her.
suicide is a dumb idea

Ironica · « **Reply #11 on:** June 09, 2009, 03:41:21 PM »

Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. Though it is quite dumb, when you are at that point, the call of death sounds so sweet.

The only advise I could offer is to be there for her and show that if she does go through it, you will be hurt tremendously. Depending on her mind set, she might change her mind if she sees that others that she knows and cares about would be devisasted. After all, that's the only reason I'm still alive.

I will be praying for her and for you to be there for her.

Mr.Hiatus · « **Reply #12 on:** June 09, 2009, 04:19:36 PM »

Why in the heck is this on the boards? Sorry will but this should not be posted. Something like this you need to talk to her by phone and not post it here. That is messed up.
Anyway to be blunt, she will not kill herself over her boyfriend. She is just wanting attention. Birth control messes with your hormones the first months you are on it. If she has been on it then that is no excuse (and I would not mention that she is on birth control on here either). Anyway I have seen this a lot of times. Girl thinks she is madly in love because they say I Love You

then things go south and the girl reacts like this. She will not kill herself, just talk to her and she will be fine. But honestly I would not talk to her after that.

Vasbear · « **Reply #13 on:** June 09, 2009, 04:48:51 PM »

In times like this i look to 1 Corinthians 10:13.

I will be praying for you...about a year back i thought that same as Mr.Hiatus, but i was proven wrong...and the sadness and devistation she left is unbelievable.

I would try to give advise on how to help but i don't have much, from whhat i can tell you are on the right track asking others to keep her in there paryers.

Psomaster · « **Reply #14 on:** June 09, 2009, 04:51:28 PM »

thank you cam. your one of the first smart people to post a reply. thank you for the prayers all so far. theres alot more to it now tho and it makes matters worse and more complicated.

i will start with what happened last night. she was waiting for her freind to escort her home since it was late and that place had the local bars letting out at the time. she had her 2nd cat marcelo sitting in her lap purring. she finaly went home. cried herself to sleep and finaly passed out at 6 am. got woken up at noon by ryan calling, ryan is the freind, and he sayed you should sit down, he started bawling and crying and told her marcelo was dead. he was fine just the night before. and their other cat johny was trying to wake marcelo. its one of the saddest things ive ever heard. then she called marks house(her bf) and got his dad to wake him saying it was an emergency. they finaly talked for the first time since friday and she told him marcelo was gone and wanted to know if he would be there to help her through it and he sayed they were done and that it wasnt her fault. great way to comfort her eh?

well now shes at ryans and has been bawling her eyes out and ryans been sitting quitly trying to sleep more. its hitting them both so hard and i can tell ryan is holding it in and its hitting him just as hard as hes spent since xmas basicly alone with both the cats most of the day.

Vasbear · « **Reply #15 on:** June 09, 2009, 04:56:03 PM »

I would sugeest praying for ryan too...he is taking alot on his shoulders.

Colin Michael · « **Reply #16 on:** June 09, 2009, 08:49:17 PM »

Quote from: Ironica on June 09, 2009, 03:41:21 PM

Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem.

As opposed to a temporary solution to a temporary problem?

Timothy DS · « **Reply #17 on:** June 09, 2009, 09:07:36 PM »

have you heard of going to hell? It is permanent if you are not a christian. Which I assume she isn't because she believes she has no hope except from her boyfriend.

SerpentSlayer · « **Reply #18 on:** June 09, 2009, 10:17:04 PM »

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This reply is totally unnecessary and you should delete it immediately. Why is it on the boards you ask? BECAUSE IT IS A SERIOUS PRAYER REQUEST, THAT'S WHY!!! I'm getting REALLY SICK of people not taking suicide seriously, you are the 2nd person to do this.

Well I'm really glad you are all-knowing and "experienced", but if you were, I think you would realize that this is serious, not just an attention grabber.

Okay, like wow, Mr. Hiatus immature? lol!

Dear Dr. Cameron, It's just as unnecessary as your post. And this shouldn't even be an issue anymore, but Will keeps putting his nose where it doesn't belong and eventually it will be cut off because of his actions. Suicide is serious if it's your business, but in this case it really isn't. It's just like meddling with other people's sin around the world, it really isn't our job to put our nose in everybody's sin problems. We're just here to give the answer to the sin problem and nothing else. This reminds me of a soap or something... Will just turn on your TV to All My Children and stop messing with fire. I don't want my dear friend Will hurt.

PS
Will, I do think you ought to witness if you can to her one last time and then cease from contact. In times of desperation we need God the most.

Colin Michael · « **Reply #19 on:** June 09, 2009, 10:44:35 PM »

Quote from: Timothy DS on June 09, 2009, 09:07:36 PM

have you heard of going to hell? It is permanent if you are not a christian. Which I assume she isn't because she believes she has no hope except from her boyfriend.

Judge not or you will be judged.

But yeah, fear of hell can be a very useful motivation

Colin Michael · « **Reply #20 on:** June 09, 2009, 11:20:29 PM »

Play her this song: http://www.playlist.com/searchbeta/tracks#elton%20john%20kill%20myself

And call a suicide hotline/the fuzz.

SerpentSlayer · « **Reply #21 on:** June 09, 2009, 11:26:05 PM »

I laughed soooo hard when I saw this...lolololololololololololo

Alex_Olijar · « **Reply #22 on:** June 09, 2009, 11:36:49 PM »

Not to heap on the seeming bad things, but isn't Hiatus from GA? So, like, he knows Pso in the real? Meaning he would know more about it than Cam?

Either way, this is a message board, and so by him posting it here, he of all people should know he's going to get an advice colmun in addition to prayers.

Cameron the Conqueror · « **Reply #23 on:** June 10, 2009, 12:17:11 AM »

I'll respond to this tomorrow.

Alex_Olijar · « **Reply #24 on:** June 10, 2009, 12:29:48 AM »

That's fine; be negative about my comments. But I'm sure Pso knows we all want the best for this situation and we are trying to help in other ways not jsut prayer - giving him the cloak instead of wishing him one as James would say. We aren't being mean spirited. Could things have been said better? Probably. But when comes down to it, we are simply stating our opinions and trying to give advice from the other side of a computer screen. What we say doesn't matter, but by asking us to pray for it, he is obligated to hear our thoughts on it, especially since he has been so public about what's going. Don't pretend like some of us want her to die - we don't.

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Author Topic: life or death plz pray (Read 12103 times)

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