I would like to give an update and thank you for your prayers:
First: Praise God, for answered prayer and a peaceful solution!
After a successful family meeting (where people involved worked out their issues) and a successful parents meeting where questions could be asked and comments made: the issue is resolved, and my original decision (that I felt was what God wanted) stands. Now everybody is on board and supportive of my decision.
Again thanks for your prayers! God granted wisdom, guidance, and peace during a stressful situation.